And one of my mom's best friends married a guy who's eleven years younger than she is, and they're so happy it makes the rest of us sick. But as has been mentioned, in spite of it not being creepy, just remember that you both are probably at completely different places in your lives. I think as long as you keep that in mind and don't expect too much at this point. But creepy? By Ma. Na Started 1 hour ago. By GretNiZ Started 13 hours ago.
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JA Posted June 10, Cheetarah Posted June 10, Is Justin Bieber that old already? No, I don't think it's creepy nor do I think gender plays a role. BrianH46 Posted June 10, MikNomis 64 Posted June 10, And one of my mom's best friends married a guy who's eleven years younger than she is, and they're so happy it makes the rest of us sick But as has been mentioned, in spite of it not being creepy, just remember that you both are probably at completely different places in your lives.
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To be quite clear, I am not here to rail on behalf of aspiring Leo Dicaprios against the great injustice that is men having to face a tiny bit of criticism for reaping the rewards of a societal dynamic that routinely puts them in bed with young, beautiful women. I am here, however, to suggest that liking and pursuing younger women as an older man is not inherently predatory or exploitative.
There is a certain power dynamic involved, to be sure, but it is one that consenting young women are equally capable of leveraging to our own advantage. In an ideal world, would we all select our lifelong mates based on some kind of ethereal attraction between core selfhood entirely divorced from any physical qualities or other earthly trappings? Sure, maybe. For many of us, that somewhere is age. Age tends to factor heavily into our romantic decisions because it is often a useful indicator of where a person may be in their career, how they might feel about future family planning, their taste in music, etc.
Many people choose to date people close in age because they assume that means they will have more in common. Other people may prefer to seek partners in other age ranges for various other reasons, or perhaps even for no real reason beyond the often uncontrollable forces of personal preference. That, as they say, is why they make chocolate and vanilla. That said, there are currently many valid, important conversations taking place about when a harmless matter of sexual preference becomes a more problematic one of fetishization.
I think it is absolutely possible to fetishize younger women. I think it is also possible to genuinely and respectfully appreciate a younger woman without exploiting or fetishizing her youth. I enjoy dating older men because I tend to have better conversations and experience deeper emotional and mental compatibility with them than with men my own age. I also enjoy dating older men because they tend to have better jobs, better apartments with fewer roommates and better taste in cocktail bars.
Is this opportunistic? Is it inherently wrong or bad? What I do know is I have experienced profound romantic connections with year-olds, the best sex of my life with year-olds and lasting friendship with benefits with year-olds. I have also experienced bad dates, bad sex and life-changing heartbreak with men in the same age range, all without feeling exploited, preyed-upon or fetishized.
With that, then, I offer older men interested in dating younger women the following non-expert, unofficial tips on how to do it without being the worst. Again, I cannot claim to be the moral authority on the right and wrong reasons to like someone.
I think it is okay and, yes, possible to simply prefer younger women the way some people prefer strawberry ice cream and not have it be any more complicated than that. I also think perhaps more controversially it is okay to prefer younger women because you find them more physically attractive or more charming or more engaging or better in bed.
These things rarely exist entirely independently of each other. Often the things we are drawn to in our sexual and romantic partners overlap with other qualities we like. This is just how attraction works. If you think this, you are the worst. If you think this and act on it, you are a predator.
Plain and simple. When I was 21, I fell in love with a year-old I had been dating for a few months. When I decided to tell him, I was prepared for rejection. I was not prepared for him to try to talk me out of it on the grounds that I was too young to know what love was. It is understandably uncomfortable when someone you like and respect develops romantic feelings you cannot reciprocate.
It is not okay to try to talk someone out of those feelings by arguing that they are too young to be able to properly identify them. Months earlier, I remember strolling out of a West Village bar hand-in-hand with that same man on our first date, telling him that I date year-olds because someday when I am 37 and my year-old husband wants to date year-olds, I want to at least know that I made the most of what I had when I had it.
Young women dating older men are aware of the power dynamics at play.
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I ended up leaving that job. The shame and humiliation that I endured in the aftermath forced me to quit that employer. But skipping it would be detrimental from a networking standpoint. However, if I attend with my wife, I risk possibly irking many people, especially since numbers of my colleagues have daughters in her same age-range.
Should I attend the party alone? If you hold equal standing and respect in your marriage, despite your year age difference, then her opinion must count equally. The past is done, yet some facts about your previous relationships are worth reviewing. Assuming that you were having sex with your girlfriends of 16 and 17 while in your 40s, the following should be noted:.
In Canada, the age of consent to sexual activity is In the United States, the age of consent for sex varies by state, at 16, 17, or 18, with most set at It begs the question: Back then, how much say did your teenage companions have in your decisions? Now for the present. Your wife at 19 now, was the legal age to marry months ago at 18, anywhere in North America except for Nebraska, the one state that sets the age of majority at So, now, what should you and your wife decide about the imminent corporate Christmas party?
Immediately discuss the choices together, being open and realistic about their pros and cons:. If you decide to skip the gathering, with its opportunities for meeting and chatting up top execs, then without a very plausible excuse, it can dim your career path. That can also risk future promotions for you. Your job prospects are important. But not more important than sharing a life of respect and love with a true partner.
Decide together. Old to minors, violence or threats, harassment or privacy invasion, impersonation or misrepresentation, fraud or phishing, show more. Yahoo Answers. A 24 year old woman dating a 19 year old man? Is dating okay or is it wrong? Any experiences woman can share? Report Abuse. Rating Newest Oldest. Best Answer:. It's not wrong. There is only a 5 year difference, and they're both over. Source s:. Add a comment.
Seduce a Woman http:. There is nothing wrong here. In society today, it's frowned upon when a older year guy a younger woman, their applauded when an dating man is dating a younger women. That's all crap. If guy has all the qualities you like and are attracted to and you enjoy being with him, go for it! I dated a younger guy for a short amount of time man I realized he was fun but not thinking at my level yet, even though he was only 2 years younger then me. But if you feel he is at your level or vice old, then woman is nothing wrong with it.
Go for it and Good Luck! They're both adults, legally speaking. However, I'd be a bit curious about how much a 24 year old woman should have in common with a 19 year old man. People change a lot during that time their in their lives. I wouldn't anticipate that it would be terribly successful in the long-term. Now and days people think that all women date older men, when really it just happens that way because of maturity level.
My mom is 33 and dating a man who is 29 who is the perfect gentlemen and respectful and they have been year for well over two years. It's not wrong at all. It's not really wrong, but somehow feels a bit. Mainly because 19 year olds really their not very mature especially the boys. I have just started as a mature student in a class full of 19 year olds and they are immature, can't man a proper beard, and for some reason i can't work out, tiny.
To me thats fine your old adults, but it does depend if you want similar things or not i know young guy guy im sure you know what they can be like dating dont get hurt but if you think hes year enough then i would say their nothing wrong with it at all i mean theres hardly an age diffrence:.
Good luck. The Key Man Seduction http:. I don't think it's wrong, but it sounds awkward. I know in Love age shouldn't matter but usually the guy is older, woman younger. It sounds kind of odd, with that old of a gap. Don't let age break man up. Pagination 1. Existing questions. Related Questions Is it ok for a 24 year old old to date a 19 year old man? Is it okay their a 24 old woman to date 19 year old man?
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